I am not an artist or even popular person or celebrity... But my mail was hijacked, my facebook was followed and myself was investigated. However, it was done by someone I don't even know.
It sound ridiculous, but it is true. And I confused. Why it happened? What the reason?
Why people did crazy things? Yes, like stalking. I do remember people used to said crazy happened when it is love exist. But, this thing done by same gender to me and I don't think we know to each other. And believe me she has my phone number too, just she don't dare to call me or maybe she did try calling but I don't answer any unknown number.
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Sunday, April 24, 2011
Saturday, February 5, 2011
Another email to share
This is great story!
One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position
in a big company.
He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.
The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were
excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research,
never had a year when he did not score.
The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none."
The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"
The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother
who paid for my school fees."
The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered,
"My mother worked as clothes cleaner.".
The director requested the youth to show his hands.
The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"
The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books.
Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me."
The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your
mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning."
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high.
When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands.
His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that.
It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled,
and there were so many bruises in her hands.
Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.
This was the first time the youth realized that ...
1. it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable
him to pay the school fee.
2. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay
for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.
After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed
all the remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.
_____________________________________________________
Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me
what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"
The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning
all the remaining clothes."
The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."
The youth said.....
Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not
the successful me today.
Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how
difficult and tough it is to get something done.
Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.
The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my Manager".
1. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others,
2. a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done,
3. and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life.
the director said, You are hired.
Later on, this young person worked very hard.....
1. and received the respect of his subordinates.
2. Every employee worked diligently and as a team.
3. The company's performance improved tremendously.
A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would
1. develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first.
2. he would be ignorant of his parent's efforts.
3. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him,
and when he becomes a manager,
4. he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always
blame others.
For this kind of people, who may be good academically,
1. may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of
achievement.
2. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more.
If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or
are we destroying the kid instead?
You can let your kid ...
1. live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV.
But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it.
After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowl together with their brothers and sisters
It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because..
1. you want to love them in a right way.
2. you want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are,
One day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.
The most important thing is your ...
1. kid learns how to appreciate the effort and
2. experience the difficulty
3. and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.
This is a powerful message in our modern society.
Sometimes we may seem to have lost our bearing
& our sense of direction.
Sometimes we may seem to have lost our bearing
& our sense of direction.
One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position
in a big company.
He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.
The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were
excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research,
never had a year when he did not score.
The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none."
The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"
The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother
who paid for my school fees."
The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered,
"My mother worked as clothes cleaner.".
The director requested the youth to show his hands.
The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"
The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books.
Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me."
The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your
mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning."
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high.
When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands.
His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that.
It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled,
and there were so many bruises in her hands.
Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.
This was the first time the youth realized that ...
1. it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable
him to pay the school fee.
2. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay
for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.
After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed
all the remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.
_____________________________________________________
Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me
what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"
The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning
all the remaining clothes."
The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."
The youth said.....
Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not
the successful me today.
Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how
difficult and tough it is to get something done.
Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.
The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my Manager".
1. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others,
2. a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done,
3. and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life.
the director said, You are hired.
Later on, this young person worked very hard.....
1. and received the respect of his subordinates.
2. Every employee worked diligently and as a team.
3. The company's performance improved tremendously.
A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would
1. develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first.
2. he would be ignorant of his parent's efforts.
3. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him,
and when he becomes a manager,
4. he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always
blame others.
For this kind of people, who may be good academically,
1. may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of
achievement.
2. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more.
If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or
are we destroying the kid instead?
You can let your kid ...
1. live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV.
But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it.
After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowl together with their brothers and sisters
It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because..
1. you want to love them in a right way.
2. you want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are,
One day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.
The most important thing is your ...
1. kid learns how to appreciate the effort and
2. experience the difficulty
3. and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.
Monday, January 24, 2011
Life is ^LOVE^
None of us can leave alone. Never and it is impossible.
Allah states in the Al-Quran about it;
“The Believers, men and women, are protectors one of another: they enjoin the ma`roof (all of Islam), and forbid the munkar (all that is evil; kufr): they observe regular prayers, pay Zakat, and obey Allah and His Messenger. On them will Allah pour His mercy: for Allah is Exalted in power, Wise.” (The Holy Qur’an, 9:71)
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) mentioned in a hadith narrated by Muslim;
"A Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He does not oppress him, nor does he leave him at the mercy of others." (Sahih Muslim Book 032, Number 6219)
The believer of God also keep be mention on it. Referring any book of religious, from Quran – book of Muslim, teaching of Mahatma Gandhi and even the thinking of Gautama Buddha all are mention about being good to others.
Taking a quotes of Mahatma Gandhi as a proof;
“The Believers, men and women, are protectors one of another: they enjoin the ma`roof (all of Islam), and forbid the munkar (all that is evil; kufr): they observe regular prayers, pay Zakat, and obey Allah and His Messenger. On them will Allah pour His mercy: for Allah is Exalted in power, Wise.” (The Holy Qur’an, 9:71)
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) mentioned in a hadith narrated by Muslim;
"A Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He does not oppress him, nor does he leave him at the mercy of others." (Sahih Muslim Book 032, Number 6219)
The believer of God also keep be mention on it. Referring any book of religious, from Quran – book of Muslim, teaching of Mahatma Gandhi and even the thinking of Gautama Buddha all are mention about being good to others.
Taking a quotes of Mahatma Gandhi as a proof;
“I want to realize brotherhood or identity not merely with the beings called human, but I want to realize identity with all life, even with such things as crawl upon earth.”
Hence, why the teaching said so if people are living as person? It was a waste thought/ teaching then. But looking at nature especially at ourself. What are we feel when we stay alone?
Statistic from mental institute claims, most people get stress because they don't have people to share stories with, they don't have partner to share ideas and they don't allied with anything even pet. Thus, they tend to speak to themselves, have their own imagination and action as their do want to. Continual of these affecting their behavior, their mind then reflecting their mental.
Statistic from mental institute claims, most people get stress because they don't have people to share stories with, they don't have partner to share ideas and they don't allied with anything even pet. Thus, they tend to speak to themselves, have their own imagination and action as their do want to. Continual of these affecting their behavior, their mind then reflecting their mental.
I do once thinking of distance myself from people. Be alone as a result of failure in love. Dissapointment, hatred, anger make me difficult to be in people. Well, in love i deliver all the trust to my lover. I used to have my lover as all in one; friend, alliance, brother and of cause lover seeking for pamper. As i deliver all of it, once it over my trust to human which is i describe is the love is gone.
Then i realize, lover is only a part of human in the world especially named as love people. Still among us is family and friend but not forgotten the neglected people called personal admirer, who always watching, care and volunteer shoulder for a cry. I wake up! Be alone is a crazy person. Life is about partner, sharing and be group.
Then i realize, lover is only a part of human in the world especially named as love people. Still among us is family and friend but not forgotten the neglected people called personal admirer, who always watching, care and volunteer shoulder for a cry. I wake up! Be alone is a crazy person. Life is about partner, sharing and be group.
Lover is only a small part of LOVE. Love is divine and diversity. If talking about heart-lover, well, searching for lover is like rumble in forest. Sometime you are dancing with the blog, sometime with the animals and may sometime you are dancing with bushes. If you are lucky probably you are dancing with human.
The most important is keep alert. Looking for people who love you not a person that you in love. They, the people you love more than they love you, are taking advantage on you then you will scarify a lot but may get nothing in return. Life tortured and shorten.
We are living in variety and depending to each other. LIFE IS LOVE - for real!
We are living in variety and depending to each other. LIFE IS LOVE - for real!
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Forgetfull
We talk about happiness everyday either by ourselves or with others. But the true happiness is love.
We blind by thing not in hand. We got jealous with others achievement while maybe the guy that we do impress is hoping to be like us. Man never get satisfy even the sea has been conquered.
Realizing the true love which is around us every second without failed make me really appreciate myself. I have faith in ALLAH that bind me from doing harm and bad things but most- allowed me to breath still, I have parent with old thought that remind me and prohibit me from all the 'temporary world beauty' and have many people around me that care of me always be during my sadness and failure. Hence i really i am chasing love that will never comes, loves that taking advantage due to my love towards them.
Again, I am soooooo GRATEFULL that HE makes me realize it before the time be too late.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Forgive & Forgiven
It was easy to say it but the most hard to do is forgiving and admit the mistake to ask for forgiveness. I believe it apply to one person but it was an individual ego.
Mahatma Gandhi once said "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." Still, how can a person seeking for apologize if it cannot realize on his mistake and admit the wrong doer is himself?
Hence, coming back to the attitude, mental taught and spiritual of an individual counted. Prophet Muhammad (Praise Upon Him) said "Admit your deed even it is the difficult to be said."
Well, during my slept yesterday i am thinking of my past and just deed recently. Everyday is wrong doing. I need to admit we can never run away from making mistake or being sarcastic (which might be unintentionally) toward others. Still, how many times soon we realize it then we ask for apologize. I do admit even to give forgiveness is hard thing to practice not just asking for forgiveness.
Mahatma Gandhi once said "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." Still, how can a person seeking for apologize if it cannot realize on his mistake and admit the wrong doer is himself?
Hence, coming back to the attitude, mental taught and spiritual of an individual counted. Prophet Muhammad (Praise Upon Him) said "Admit your deed even it is the difficult to be said."
Well, during my slept yesterday i am thinking of my past and just deed recently. Everyday is wrong doing. I need to admit we can never run away from making mistake or being sarcastic (which might be unintentionally) toward others. Still, how many times soon we realize it then we ask for apologize. I do admit even to give forgiveness is hard thing to practice not just asking for forgiveness.
Sunday, January 9, 2011
Evolution VS Revolution
Been a while i am thinking of what should i share with people. :-) I always share things that happen in my day life (even the night life). Well i guess that this time too.
I have a bad habit (is it so call habit? maybe an attitude). I do concern about people who close to me even can't accept of their change towards me or their leaving from me. I care of people than me. Sound like i am a politician. Well i love charity but never taught of politic.
Nothing can't change this fact. I have tried it for times but it is me!
Hence, i always being sad about my life. People walk away everyday. Sometime there being in 'idle' mood in friendship/relationship for quite sometime.But i do looking for them, until i realized they are walking away from me which it take times to realize and to accept it.
Is the people evolution is the fault or my failure to revolution is a fault?
I have a bad habit (is it so call habit? maybe an attitude). I do concern about people who close to me even can't accept of their change towards me or their leaving from me. I care of people than me. Sound like i am a politician. Well i love charity but never taught of politic.
Nothing can't change this fact. I have tried it for times but it is me!
Hence, i always being sad about my life. People walk away everyday. Sometime there being in 'idle' mood in friendship/relationship for quite sometime.But i do looking for them, until i realized they are walking away from me which it take times to realize and to accept it.
Is the people evolution is the fault or my failure to revolution is a fault?
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